I know you mean well but

[rhionnach]

The situation with my mother's will and issues surrounding the thieving cow who persuaded her to change her will in her favour is something which will not change rapidly. Much as I appreciate people asking me how it's going, it's upsetting, and I really want to get on with life while dealing with this shitty situation. So please, can I ask that you don't keep asking me as it can stir up my anxiety. It leaves me mulling things over, waking me up in the middle of the night, and I really do not need that. I have to keep my body and soul and my job together.